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I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult time. Dealing with the death of a loved one is never easy, and everyone's experience is unique. Here are some general steps and considerations that might help you navigate this difficult situation:

1. Take Care of Yourself: Grief can take a toll on your physical and emotional well-being. It's important to prioritize self-care during this time. Make sure you're eating, resting, and reaching out to friends or professionals if needed.

2. Notify Others: If you're responsible for doing so, inform close friends, family members, and the deceased person's employer about the death. You can consider enlisting the help of others to spread the news.

3. Legal and Practical Matters:
- If the death occurred at home or in a non-medical setting, you might need to contact emergency services or the appropriate authorities to report the death.
- If the person was receiving medical care, the hospital or healthcare provider can guide you through the necessary procedures.

4. Death Certificate: You'll need to obtain an official death certificate. This document is usually issued by a medical professional or a local government agency. It's essential for legal and practical matters such as handling the deceased person's estate, insurance claims, and more.

5. Funeral and Memorial Arrangements:
- Decide whether there will be a funeral, memorial service, or another form of remembrance. These events can provide closure and a chance for people to say goodbye.
- Consider the wishes of the deceased person if they expressed them, and also consider what will be most meaningful for you and others.

6. Estate Matters:
- If the deceased person had a will or estate plan, you might need to work with an attorney to carry out their wishes.
- If there was no will, the legal process for distributing the person's assets will vary depending on local laws.

7. Support Network:
- Lean on family and friends for emotional support during this time. Don't hesitate to reach out to a counselor, therapist, or support group if you find it helpful.
- It's okay to ask for help with practical tasks as well, such as organizing the memorial or handling paperwork.

8. Give Yourself Time to Grieve:
- Grieving is a personal process that takes time. Allow yourself to feel your emotions without judgment.
- Everyone grieves differently, so don't compare your journey to others'.

Remember that there's no one-size-fits-all approach to dealing with death. Your feelings and needs are unique. If you're struggling, it's okay to seek professional help, such as a therapist or counselor, who can provide guidance and support tailored to your situation.

Creating a pet memorial website is a thoughtful way to honor and remember a beloved furry friend. Here are some steps to help you get started:

1. Planning and Conceptualization:
- Decide on the purpose and goals of the website. Do you want to create a simple tribute page or a more comprehensive memorial with stories, photos, and interactive elements?
- Choose a title that reflects the pet's name or the purpose of the website.
- Outline the content you want to include, such as a biography, photo gallery, stories, poems, and guestbook.

2. Platform
- Choose a reliable platform that offers the features you need for your website (e.g.,

3. Content Creation:
- Write a heartfelt biography of your pet, including their history, personality, and memorable moments.
- Gather high-quality photos and organize them into a gallery. Add captions or descriptions for each photo.
- Write and share stories, anecdotes, or poems that highlight your pet's unique qualities and the memories you shared.

4. Interactive Elements:
- Consider adding interactive features like a guestbook where visitors can leave messages and condolences.
- Include social media sharing buttons to allow visitors to easily share the memorial with others.

5. Privacy and Security:
- Decide whether you want the website to be public or password-protected for limited access.
- Implement security measures to protect any personal information shared on the website.

6. Promotion and Sharing:
- Share the website with friends, family, and pet-loving communities.
- Consider creating social media accounts or posts to raise awareness about the memorial website.

7. Regular Maintenance:
- Periodically update the website with new content or memories.
- Monitor the guestbook and respond to messages if applicable.

Remember that creating a pet memorial website is a deeply personal endeavor, and it's important to take your time and ensure that the website reflects the love and respect you have for your pet.

Learn more about our pet memorial websites here

Writing a memorial tribute is a thoughtful and meaningful way to honor and remember someone who has passed away. Here are some steps to help you write a heartfelt and effective memorial tribute:

1. Reflect on Your Relationship: Begin by reflecting on your relationship with the person you're honoring. Consider your memories, experiences, and the impact they had on your life. Think about their personality, values, accomplishments, and the qualities that made them special.

2. Gather Information: Collect relevant information about the person's life, such as their background, achievements, interests, and significant life events. Speak to family members, friends, and loved ones to gather anecdotes, stories, and insights that can help you create a well-rounded tribute.

3. Choose a Focus: Decide on the central theme or focus of the tribute. It could be a particular aspect of the person's life, such as their professional achievements, personal qualities, contributions to the community, or the impact they had on their family and friends.

4. Structure Your Tribute: Organize your tribute into a coherent structure. Consider using the following sections as a guide:
a. Introduction: Begin with a brief introduction that sets the tone and purpose of the tribute.
b. Personal Anecdotes: Share personal stories, memories, and anecdotes that showcase the person's character, values, and impact on others.
c. Achievements: Highlight their notable achievements, both personal and professional, and discuss their contributions to the community or field.
d. Qualities and Values: Describe the person's qualities, values, and attributes that made them exceptional.
e. Legacy and Impact: Discuss the lasting impact they had on others, their community, and the world.
f. Conclusion: Summarize your tribute by emphasizing the significance of their life and expressing your final thoughts.

5. Use Descriptive Language: Use descriptive and evocative language to paint a vivid picture of the person and their experiences. Show, don't just tell, by using specific details and examples to illustrate their character and accomplishments.

6. Be Authentic: Write from the heart and let your emotions guide your words. Be sincere and genuine in your expression of grief, love, and admiration.

7. Edit and Revise: After you've written the tribute, take time to review and revise it. Check for clarity, coherence, grammar, and spelling errors. Make sure your words effectively convey your intended message.

8. Practice Delivery: If you're delivering the tribute as a speech or presentation, practice your delivery. Pay attention to your tone, pace, and emotional expression.

9. Include Quotes or Poetry: Incorporate meaningful quotes, passages from literature, or poetry that resonate with the person's life and character.

10. Share and Preserve: Share the tribute with family, friends, and other loved ones. Consider publishing it in a memorial program, on social media, or in a personal blog. You might also want to keep a copy for your own records or for future generations.

Remember, a memorial tribute is a way to honor and celebrate a person's life, so focus on capturing their essence and the positive impact they had on the world.

Rhona Hutchison 

14. July 1982 - 21st November 2007

Rhona died in 2007 of Cystic Fibrosis at age 25. She was married to Lee Manby and had two cats, Snowball and Felix.

She lived in Stenhousemuir but was originally from Cumbernauld.

Her mother and father were June and Frazer and she had a sister Karen, and a brother John.

She was also an auntie to Sean, Natalie and Hollie.

We all miss her so much and think of her every day.

In loving memory

Karen Fraser




Honoring friends and family is a great way to celebrate and commemorate someone special. It is also a meaningful and lasting way to honor the memory of a loved one and to participate in a memory-sharing movement.

There are many things you can do with the homepage, such as write a story, share your favorite photos and memories, or use this page for parties and fundraising. Because everything is stored centrally, anyone can access it at any time.

Tributize is a great online space that brings communities together to remember, share and show that they are supported.

Start a memory page to celebrate the memory of the person you love and share it with friends and family.

Write a free obituary, organize RSVP control meetings, coordinate logistics, and catering, send updates, share photos and videos. Let your community know if you are raising money for funerals, medical expenses, family support, or charity. You can also create private groups for family and friends in your community and arrange logistics and other support.

Add all your photos to the shared gallery. Encourage others to cooperate and contribute. Images and media that are shared by different people can give a more complete picture of the life and character of your loved one.

Share your story and memories in an easy way on Facebook, Twitter and email.

Join us on, where we explore the nuances and details of preparing to celebrate the life of your loved one. Here we will discuss specific topics such as writing obituaries, ordering ceremonies and compliments, choosing places, and family policy issues. But first, why did we create this tool?

Tributize is a forum for communities that meet at the moment of death. Often these are the moments when we are the saddest and neediest. In recent years, I have had the privilege and task of organizing 5 funerals (or 8, depending on how important this is), and every time I thought: "I can certainly use this tool to help me organize all this." In the end, I created this tool, and now I share it with others so that others can use it too.

When a person dies, there's so much information. I had to call a hundred people to tell them about the death of a loved one, which is quite tiring. Then I coordinated the time and place of service with my family and important friends, found a place, and when the decision was made, I had to call these 100 people to share all this information. The "phone chain" technique works, but it takes a long time, breaks down easily, and sometimes causes headaches (for example, when "Uncle Johnny" gets nervous because I asked "Aunt Audrey's" opinion before I asked her).

Tributize offers everyone a common space to organize everyone in their community, with the ability to create private groups for important decision-makers, and with the tools to disseminate all-important public information when it becomes available. This is an iterative process that allows information to be updated in real-time. And everyone in your community can see what's going on and get updates on your phone or computer by visiting

When a loved one comes in, many people want to get involved, but few people know exactly how to do it. I remember the funeral, which was attended by 30 bouquets of flowers, but no one thought to bring coffee. With, you can add a wish list to any event to make your community feel comfortable and able to contribute when you are in control and to make sure that there is a lot of coffee.

11 ways to be there for grieving friends


Grief is like a heartbreak of love. Only with the bitter certainty that the person who is crying really never comes back. How do we deal with pain? How can we help friends who have lost an important caregiver from their lives? So today we are going to explain eleven ways of being there for mourners.


  1. Take your time and ask questions

As absurd as it sounds, the simplest and most honest questions are often no longer asked in the face of death. How are you doing right now? What are you feeling? And yes, it takes strength and, above all, time to endure the answers.

Mourners have to talk. Scenes from the hospital, last impressions: the stories will repeat themselves. But that's more than usual. Listening can be frightening because dying and everything related to it scares us. In contrast, people who mourn are often afraid of annoying those around them. Controls against it!


  1. Name the deceased

Not everyone suddenly died, but someone with a name. And you should also use it. Fully aware. Nobody will feel hurt because you keep using the name. But on the contrary. Using the name is the basis for memory and respect. We experience far too often that the "deceased," the "dead," or even the "corpse" is spoken of. Always talk about the name. The person is forever in the hearts of your friends and lives on in the memories - and that than the person, your friends, knew and loved. So don't be shy, the "deceased" is and remains an individual.


  1. Offers concrete help

Be specific and pragmatic. After a death, mourners have so much to do besides the actual grief. Organize the funeral, take care of the inheritance, realign your life and, of course, be sad. "Should I take care of the children this afternoon?" "Should I accompany you to the undertaker or the cemetery?" Or "I will cook something for us this evening!"


  1. Don't make comparisons

We all remember all too well how helpful it was to be told during the first heartache that you could get over it. And telling how long someone was terrible or how quickly someone was beautiful isn't helpful. Nobody does that with malicious intent, of course, but what mourners hear and feel between the lines always surprises us. So open your eyes and heart and let phrases like "With my grandmother back then ..." be best.


  1. Ensures an excellent feeling of normalcy and everyday life

When children are among the mourners, normal everyday life must be maintained. School, hobbies and friends. Mourning parents often fail to do this in the first phase. Offering specific help here is the best for the children and also for parents. It is similar to adults. Normal things can stay normal. Keep up the invitation to watch football or girls brunch. If someone doesn't come, they just don't come. But, out of the wrong caution, not being invited is worse. Those who mourn are not sick.


  1. Feel the situation

Grief often comes in waves. You have to get a feel for when conversations are appropriate. It can help to create situations, especially in the chaos of the first days. Sit quietly together, have tea and rest. Respond to your friends. You know each other. Speak, be silent, hug or just not be alone? Trust in your gut feeling. It may take longer than usual to put your thoughts in order or find words. You will get a feel for how you can best behave.


  1. Are you yourself and are there

You know each other and what you need in stressful situations. Of course, this is an extraordinary one - and above all unknown. Therefore, trust in what has done you right before the loss. It is as important as it is difficult not to pretend. But once again, your friends have something they can rely on. Be there as yourself So you give your counterpart the feeling of not being left alone. An honest "everything is shit" sometimes fits more than a "my condolences."


  1. Crying is allowed

Please never say phrases like "It will be all right," "Soon it will be better," "Mourning will be less." If someone wants to cry, he can do it. No matter when, where and how long. With extreme losses, the environment is often considered. For example, we often observe that the loss of parents is often underestimated. From friends from partners, but also the social environment.


  1. Laughter is allowed

It cannot be said often enough: mourners can also laugh. Thanks to a funny anecdote that comes to mind about the person they lost or simply because one of you was fluffy. We see again and again that some look puzzled because the closest mourners suddenly have a moment of humor. It is important not to forbid the little jokes of everyday life.


  1. Accept individual grief

Every death is bad and incomprehensible, and you never know beforehand how to react to it. And that's why no grief is like any other. Some of your friends will withdraw and don't want to talk. Others take a step forward and seek exchange. Give your friends time and don't force them into a mourning schedule.


  1. Be sure that you are doing well yourself

On airplanes, it is said that the breathing masks should be put on first. The same applies to deal with mourners. We as friends and acquaintances, also have to take care of ourselves. Because I can only help if I am fine myself.


As you are moving on to the next stage and phase in your life and career, i wish you all the best. may you find success and smooth in all you do.

thanks for the friendship over the last 7 yrs. we have our fair share of up and down through the years, but as u know, anything i am here to support. and thanks for the support all these while too.

jiayou gambatte


Happy Birthday Namrata(in advance)

May you always shine with lots of Joy and Happiness 

To         Stephen


Happy birthday. 
Hope you have a good day and enjoy your presents. 



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